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Quick disclaimer : "I wrote this article to remind you how exceptional and enough you are right now. Define yourself." Our main goals in life should only be : to become better versions of ourselves and to define ourselves according to our goals and aspirations. We actually live in a world where we tend to let society, actual trends and people around us define ourselves. Speaking of the people around us, there are three types of people that we listen to the most in our lives : 1. DON'T LET YOUR PARENTS DEFINE YOU Most parents have a tendency to put their expectations on their children. I know that parents want the best for their children but some can put a lot of pressures on them, by wanting them to become what they couldn't become themselves in their lives. 2. DON'T LET YOUR FRIENDS DEFINE YOU This won't apply to you if your friends/acquaintances are real, good to you and push you to strive successfully in your life. If you ha...

Assalamualaikum... It’s been a while since I’ve update my blog , right?  I really miss express my feelings here. I think I’ve quite busy nowadays.  Actually lately I really confuse with my feelings, sad, overthinking and I don’t know how to say about this situation. Lately, I feel lost. I keep questioning myself, if I did something wrong or what I’m going to do if I don't get the job until new years. What I’m going to do?  I really really don’t know what to think. I’m really sad. I can’t even imagine how will I survive. My friends got job after they finished their internship, but me? Hmmm I felt left out.  I think because I do not grateful enough this entire time.  Actually, I really hurt as one of my good friend did not invite me to her e-day. I keep questioning why? Why did she not tell me about that day. I hate to overthink things like this. Maybe because we not close anymore. I have to accept the fact, that I’m the o...